I'm so grateful they waited for our family to get home from Italy, before having Sue's visitation and funeral. I knew when we left for our trip that she would most likely pass while we were gone. Leaving for Italy and not canceling our trip was definitely a tough decision. One we debated and prayed about. However, one of the things that Sue kept saying was "live your life". In true form, she felt bad that we, her kids, were taking so much time away from our own families to be with her at the hospital. No matter how many times we told her that by her side was where we wanted to be. She didn't want us to cancel our trip. She knew it was Kaylee's graduation gift.
Getting to the visitation was a bit rough. We landed in Miami on the 15th and by the time we got home it was 6 pm. Our flight to Cedar Rapids was at 7:00 am, which meant we were at our house for less than 12 hours before leaving again. Then our connecting flight in Dallas kept getting delayed to the point that we showed up an hour into Sue's Visitation Service. Thankfully, Jonathan recorded the stories people told for me, so I was able to hear what people said about her, which was special. We walked in right as the line started for others to offer their condolences. I'm thankful we got there in time for that. It was very special seeing so many family members I hadn't seen in years. I got to see Aunt Joanne, Uncle Gary, Kevin, Dee Dee, Kristin, Darin, Aunt Barb, Jason, Sean and Nate. I'm pretty sure I hadn't seen them since Grandma Gaskill's funeral in 2012, so it was great catching up with them. Just wish it was under better circumstances.
I'm just so thankful I was able to be with her and my dad when it counted and that Debi and I were able to trade off being with our dad. Trevor, Trace and Kianna are flying home on the 19th and Kaylee is staying with me until the 25th and then I'm staying with my dad until the 30th. He's going to have a tough time. He's never been alone. I can't believe she's gone. I'm just glad she's not in pain anymore and that I get to see her again in heaven one day!










































































